Men are men and do things their way but, it is not always as they think. You get the mindset and the reality. The two are way different.
Some men go out on a date to impress the gal. They put on their spray so much that it becomes truly irritating to be around them. Others go too prepared with rehearsed verses of how they would answer particular questions and when they get their, their nervousness is very visible. They forget their lines and panic even at the slightest out of hand situation. They even can not flow properly in a conversation. All these shows that the guy is not really confident in him self. Although, some of them get off lucky because their nervousness may see really sweet. The gal may see it as somewhat romantic- the stammering, the trying so hard to please her etc. It may show that he truly cares and would go to any length to make sure everything is perfect and not utterly ruined and most of all, it will also show that he really likes her! But in other cases, it may make the gal really pissed off and truly embarrassed. The out come will all depending on the gal.
Most guys also go to such lengths as to looking really impressive- heavy shoes expensive shirts and wrist watches, extravagant haircut and shaves and an over confident walk, over exaggerated or big talk, pompous air around him etc. All this are definite turn offs to any babe. They simply feel insulted! Some men may go on and on about them selves, work, their exs and their successes- It’s all about them. This is very unwise. Some get over relaxed that they may start blabbing about settling down with their new date and expressing their vision of the gal doing the supposed work of a lady in the house like cleaning, doing his laundry, going off to stay with his mother etc. He might say it jokingly but this is not funny at all. Infact, it may scare any potential partner far, far way from him and could even be seen as a chauvinist- All he needs is a dutiful wife, not a partner!
